Without growth there is no self elevation. Without elevation there is no evolving. Without evolving, you will be left behind. There will never be any revelations you’ll be open to, which means you will always remain stagnant.
It’s time for a change. It’s no longer just thinking we have nothing to work on ourselves, it’s no longer pointing fingers when it’s US that need the inner work. There’s a difference between giving constructive criticism and then being defensive and projecting yourself on to others just to call them out. Cause you felt attacked or triggered.
Evolving will be your best journey ever, you will need a new version of yourself, daily. You’ll be more happier, calmer, confident, secured & so much more. You’ll finally feel as if you’ve taken control of your life, for once. You’ll take back that power you’ve lost so many years ago.
How to evolve ?
- Admit you have habits & issues that need to be changed.
- Admit to ALL your flaws without blaming anyone , or adding anyone that is similar. Worry about yourself.
- Stop jumping to defense when someone is simply trying to help you.
- Don’t project what you feel onto others , instead use that emotion to get better. Otherwise you’ll never work on yourself. You’ll forever be ready to call flaws on others , any time yours are being called on. Learn who’s helping and who’s projecting.
- Make a effort to heal, don’t do it for a few days then say “ it didn’t work” this takes years even. Go at your pace. You should be evolving daily.
- Change your habits and your social circle. It matters who you spend most of your time with. Those are where you’re going you’ll gain all your insights, creative ideas and more. Make sure you’re around those who can really push that side.
- Don’t allow traumas to determine your present & future. It matters. Let go.
- Lastly you need to want it for yourself , and then others. Cause if you’re not doing it for yourself , then you’re going to be forced to change to whatever people want. Understanding the difference between someone helping Vs someone controlling will save you the trouble.
Overall you should be able to know your own flaws , ask around. Ask your friends & family are there things that you do, that you may be unaware of. Don’t ask that person who’s been waiting all their life to talk down on you. Ask someone you TRULY trust to guide you the right way. There’s too many haters close by that we’re unaware of, they’ll stir you in the wrong direction. Stir yourself the right way.