Breakups Are Blessings.

Break ups can be blessings in disguise. Just because we don’t see the bigger picture now. Doesn’t mean there isn’t one. Give it time , heal , have patience. It’ll all be revealed in due time.

Breakups can be ROUGH, there’s a world of different emotions from sadness, confusion , maybe anger , peace. Regardless of who was right or wrong. If you loved each other , it’ll hurt. But it won’t hurt forever. Give yourself honest time to heal. Accept that you are heartbroken, that you’re not okay with how things turned out, but ready to heal yourself even greater. That’s actually how you heal faster. Acknowledging it face to face.

No one is perfect , so learn to forgive your past relationships with an open mind & heart. That’s how you move forward , finding the right one for you. Focus more on enhancing yourself daily. That’ll upgrade your essence in every way, ensuring that’ll lead you to your upgrade love companion.

Healing Takes Time.

No matter what happened in life that brought us to a dark place , there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Keep fighting , because the win 🏆 is way more powerful!

I want to keep this short so the message is perceived faster. Things will go the way it’s meant , it’ll hurt , it’ll feel like we’re at our lowest moment , shame , sadness , confusion, despair , anger , depression etc and so much more. But…

It gets better day by day. Just as a cut or bruise hurts from day one the worst. Over time , it heals and hurts much less. Some leave scars & some don’t. Either way. The pain is gone and it’s only a faint memory. The pain comes from us revisiting that experience. Although it’s long gone.

Step up to the plate for your life. Love it to its fullest ! It’s okay to not be okay, but never ever stay there. Ever…You get yourself out now.

Ask me how. 💯🏆👑👁️🔑❤️

We can’t receive help until we ask.. Tap In. 💯🏆👁️❤️🔑

New Plans Will Open New Doors.

It’s time to be open to new paths in life. If it wasn’t working before then out with the old & in with the new. You’ll be much happier. ❤️

I’ve always been open to changes. Sometimes it can be comfortable, often times it’s uncomfortable. I’ve just learned to see what life has else installed for me. When something doesn’t go the way I wanted & expected , I don’t get mad. I just sit back trust and watch.

When we learn to not go against the flow, we flow. Versus crashing & thrashing upon the waters. It’ll definitely be scary, not knowing where we’re heading. Long as you’re flowing cautiously, you’re doing fine.

Don’t react off of past traumas , but from past experiences and use that to make new plans, to achieve new outcomes.

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask away.

Stay Motivated

It’s time to take control of the things in your life , expect the unexpected. Life is unpredictable. You never know where motivation will lead you.

Find time to relax. Take it easy. Keep motivated even if you don’t do what you want 100% even 1% is enough. Long as you make time to tend to your needs. That’s what matters. Keep a high head. 💯 Go for what you want. That’s it. End of story.

Do It For You!

Mental & Soul workouts are just as important as physical. Work on all three daily. These workouts are going be the pinnacle & highlight of your day.

Mental 🧠💯💪🏾 – (meditation , Positve affirmations, blockage release affirmations).

  • Clear Your Mind
  • Use positive words to get you pumping 🔋.
  • Release anything that’s causing your meter to drop 🪫. Thoughts, people, habits, every thing.

The physical body 💯💪🏾🥊🏋🏾‍♂️- Any form of bodily work out. Pace yourself. It’s not a race.

The soul 🕊️👁️✨🙏🏾 – ( Soul Searching ) Who am I? Do I identify as myself or what the world 🌍 perceives me as , or how I should be? Am I 100% in control of my self , even when I don’t want to be 101% in control?

Am I allowing worldly things to alter my inner sight ? Traumas , love , etc? I am in control of all these things. I choose exactly how every action occurs and what I receive in life, by controlling my every thought, action and decisions.

I don’t allow close ones that betrayed me, to alter my true sight. Whether that’s in confidence, actions or rationality to repeat their mistakes on others innocent and those who I feel need payback.

Career/ Your Own Business 💼📆📊🏆💯 (Build or start). If you don’t have one , hop to it. What’s something you’d do for 10 years straight for free ? That’s what you should be going for. Anything you’d do for 10 years straight , for free? Is something you’d always aim to grow and enhance. You’re not in it for the money. Day 1 is better then Day Zero.

If you have one , DAILY you need to be coming up with ideas 💡 to maintain your growth in every way possible. Come see me in a year. I’ll show you what it do. 💯🔑🌍❤️💪🏾🏆🤫 I’m sure it’s sooner. Patience.

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Take It Easy.

Sometimes we’re so caught up in our daily tasks we tend to forget we need a break. That we don’t always have to be moving , in order to feel productive. Don’t burn yourself out. Allow needed breaks so you can stay on your very best, while upgrading.

There are times we get so busy on staying productive , we forget to rest. Which can result into receiving lagging results. I myself am one who always needs to be up & about to feel productive for the day. From business, work & daily pleasures. I always find less time for my pleasures. That’s got to change.

When we allow ourselves to have fun again, not only do we enjoy getting back to business tenfold but we also come back with a fresh mind , soul & body to create new creations. No matter where your break is needed. Take it. Otherwise it will show in everything you do. Take back your freedom. Balance is key 🔑. Make time for business & pleasures. You’ll thank yourself in the future.

Sex, Love & Passion.

There’s a thin line between the three and you need to learn all signs of them. Learning whether it’s lust , love or something deeply passionate. This will help you find your right person, versus the person you assume that is right. If it’s more pain than joy, then there’s your answer. Tune to free yourself. ❤️

Firstly, patience is everything. Stop looking for the right one, and become the right one. That’ll lead you to raising your love expectations, and it’ll lead you to the right one. It’s really that simple. If you’re not working on your self worth daily, and elevating yourself for yourself. Then you’re bound to settling for less.

Love and sex can be great , but passion is what we should aim for. Someone we can confide in , share our scars and vulnerabilities with. Without fear of judgement. This is someone who can admit when they’re wrong , taking accountability for their actions. As you should be too. It takes two.

Don’t fall for just sex, don’t fall for just love , & don’t fall for just passion. Fall for someone who comes with all three. As you should be too. Someone who knows how to dish these three categories in a healthy manner. Not over doing it , no under doing. It’s time to get right. Find you , you’ll find your one.

Thanks 😊 For Reading.

Blessings In Disguise.

Sometimes things aren’t always what they seem. There may be more good in the setbacks than we think, sometimes you just have to see the silver lining.

Things go left, things go right. But what we fail to see, is the after affect. How we overcame that mishap. How possibly that outcome occurred to lead us into a greater one. Such as missing your bus and then finding $100 on the next one. You just never know.

So the next time something doesn’t go the way you expected. Step back to think, what was prevented and what was replaced? I’m almost excited when things go shifty , cause that only meant it was for a reason. That..I may never know , but I will know what was replaced. Trust all is for the better.

Pride, Ego & Death (Ego Death)

We are often told that communication is key, which is true but I also feel pride & ego should be the number one thing that we tend to first before communicating. This will reveal how a conversation will turn out, as pride and ego can some people say & do things they normally wouldn’t.

If we learned to allow ourselves to handle our emotions in a healthy manner, a lot of us would find ourselves in much better and happier settings in life. So many people lose out on good things from having too much pride & ego. How many great possible romantic, & platonic relationships that ended due to pride &ego, career, job and so many other opportunities missed due to pride and ego. People will say no when they mean yes, and vice versa. They will say hurtful things they never meant, they won’t move from logic but rather from negative emotions.

This is where ego death comes in. If you don’t know what ego death is, I’ll give you the exact definition, and some examples and benefits from it, and how you will know if you’re going through an ego death. Ego death is a “complete loss of subjective self-identity” Meaning you have to start tapping into your true self, allowing yourself to not be perfect while elevating to become your highest self, to become a better version of yourself. This is a good form of death because you are allowing yourself, to see an inward version of you, your flaws, habits and what you need to work on DAILY while unlocking new ways you operate in life. Understanding no one is perfect and we shouldn’t judge others, simply because we are all just working to live a happy life. Below is a link on some signs you may be experiencing or may have experienced an ego death. This will help you understand more about ego death, it’s benefits and how you achieve it. https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-ego-death-psychedelic-use-7089738

Overall, it’s time to get ourselves right, focus on self and only self. When we compete with others, we will always feel incompetent. But when compete with ourselves we will always elevate, enhance and aim to be a better you than yesterday.

Let It Flow..

We tend to rush and want things done our way. Just as you can’t rush baking a cake. You can’t rush your process either. Otherwise , it’ll leave a big mess & everyone will be left unhappy.

Let things unfold the way they’re meant. It’ll be beautiful , shocking and it’ll be the best decision you ever made. We need to allow life to flow. We can make some changes here & there. But once you find yourself overdoing it, trying to control every single outcome..then be surprised when you’re feeling burnt out and incompetent? That’s on you.

Take your time , let things flow. Don’t rush. It’s time to let it flow , so you may flow in life freely.