The Self Development ladder.

The 8 Steps to success!

ShanaTalks1111’s 8 steps to finding your place and way in life. Loving and living your best and highest expectations.

1.Self Awareness- Without knowledge of self, we’re bound to lose our sight in life. If we don’t know who we truly are, how do we know if we’re living the life we want ?

2.Self Confidence- When we fully feel confident in ourselves, we make bigger decisions, harder decisions, and scarier decisions with ease. You’ll always do your best, feel your best & nothing can block that. Knowing you have all the right tools 🧰 inside of you is a plus. 💪🏾👁️

3.Self Acceptance- You will never elevate until you accept 100% of who you are, flaws & all. As long you’re being a person of light , you’re doing phenomenal. Be you ! We need it.

4.Self Love- Loving oneself entirely ensures you will never allow anyone to stir you the wrong way. You know how to healthily attach and detach to anything that occurs in life.

5.Eliminating self doubt- When we learn to assist our situations with observation Vs fear. We open our minds to new opportunities, mental confidences & newer ways of problem solving.

6.Motivating Yourself- You will never move up anywhere without motivation. It’s the same as a car not starting without gas. Motivation is the gas to your car. You are the car , you steer the wheels of your path in life. Find what drives you & you’ll find your motivation!

7.The hardworking dedicated self- You need to be DEDICATED in everything you do as I mentioned in step 6, no gas ⛽️, no car, you won’t move anywhere. Staying dedicated is like having to repeatedly fill your car with gas. You can’t just fill it once & expect it’ll run forever. You have to dedicate gas as needed. In life stay dedicated to what you do, or watch it break down.

8.The Free Self- CONGRATULATIONS 🎉 You’ve made it to the final step! The free self understands it has & will always be in control. We’ve learned to let go & keep moving up the ladder in life. Trusting ourselves entirely, living with ease. A true breath of fresh air. 🪬🕊️👁️👑

Ask me about my self development courses & The 8 Steps up the ladder 🪜💯🌄to success !

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It’s time to free your mind!

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Feeling lost 😞 , stuck 😤, confused 🫤 or just unmotivated lately? It might be more of a simpler fix than you think. Sometimes all we need to do is just step back pause , review our emotions , & how we could alter them to be where we want them to be. To do this , you must take some self time. However and whenever that is, you need to make sure you have full quietness, or just alone time to successfully tap into your inner thoughts.

For an example. If I would like to build more wealth. Instead of dwelling on what’s not here , I can focus on how to build more wealth , how I can find new ways to earn more income in different areas , how to manage what income I have currently and will earn future wise wisely. The problem isn’t what’s not here , the issue is not knowing how or when to get there , how to maintain it and how to keep upgrading self.

Too often most want , but don’t want to work for it. They seek, but don’t take their time to truly observe the pros and cons. Leading them to make quick and irrational decisions based of emotions, like fear , worry etc. So how can we avoid these things, and live a more blissful life? Under our control?

It’s simple , Start planning today! Don’t wait any second longer. Write out your feelings , write out your wants & dreams , just WRITE! Read them over and over DAILY, forgive your past trauma , embrace your present cause that determines your future. Have fun and stay optimistic 💯💙✍️📝📑👑💫 and watch how much you unlock about yourself and more. Need tips ? Feel free to contact me anytime !

This was always your world 🌎. Own it. 💫👑

Be nonchalant! Here’s Why.

It’s time to start listening to your intuition. It’s time to start getting yourself right entirely. No more games. Stop caring about energies that serve you no growth in life. People, places, things and habits need to all go if it brings ,no peace, no happiness. Just misery. You change your path. Remember that. 👑💯👁

Who am I ?

The most famous question we ask ourselves daily , whether you think you know , or you don’t know. We truly have not taken the time and steps to get to know ourselves, our true selves. I don’t mean your favorite color, book, or what you like to eat.

I’m talking about who are you internally and externally. Who are you when you’re alone or with others. What thoughts excite you , what thoughts make you cringe. What is it that you want out of life. Not what others want for you. Ask , am I being kind and true to myself and others ? Am I living the life I want it the life others have chosen for me. Am I on the path that I want versus following “ The right path” ?

We can say we know but most of us truly don’t know. We find it easier to take advice from others and then apply it to our lives, rather than to dig deeper and find it ourselves. Which is okay but you might have found a better and easier way for yourself if you did it on your own.

For example. You don’t know where you want to move , someone suggest you move to hawaii. That the island is beautiful and full of life. So you go. Then you realize you don’t like it to be hot all year round , the tourist are always around and in the way with their cameras. So let’s rewind back and instead you look inward.

You close your eyes and see and feel where you’d want to be , the type of weather you want , the scenery you’d like , the house you’d want , the back yard you’d like. All of these things you want you envision. Then you find the right place for you. By looking inward.

This is what we need to do daily in everything that arises. We have to feel our answers before we can find them and decide. We need to look inward to our likes and dislikes and base that on the decisions we make. That’s the only way for us to find out who we are. What we want , the way we want our life to be.

So to ask who am I ? Is to really ask. Where do I want to be in life and how can I give myself that life that I need. How can I follow my own true path to internal happiness? So today and every day ask yourself. Who am I ? Am I’m being my true self ? Who am I?

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Who am I ?

The most famous question we ask ourselves daily , whether you think you know , or you don’t know. We truly have not taken the time and steps to get to know ourselves, our true selves. I don’t mean your favorite color, book, or what you like to eat.

I’m talking about who are you internally and externally. Who are you when you’re alone or with others. What thoughts excite you , what thoughts make you cringe. What is it that you want out of life. Not what others want for you. Ask , am I being kind and true to myself and others ? Am I living the life I want it the life others have chosen for me. Am I on the path that I want versus following “ The right path” ?

We can say we know but most of us truly don’t know. We find it easier to take advice from others and then apply it to our lives, rather than to dig deeper and find it ourselves. Which is okay but you might have found a better and easier way for yourself if you did it on your own.

For example. You don’t know where you want to move , someone suggest you move to hawaii. That the island is beautiful and full of life. So you go. Then you realize you don’t like it to be hot all year round , the tourist are always around and in the way with their cameras. So let’s rewind back and instead you look inward.

You close your eyes and see and feel where you’d want to be , the type of weather you want , the scenery you’d like , the house you’d want , the back yard you’d like. All of these things you want you envision. Then you find the right place for you. By looking inward.

This is what we need to do daily in everything that arises. We have to feel our answers before we can find them and decide. We need to look inward to our likes and dislikes and base that on the decisions we make. That’s the only way for us to find out who we are. What we want , the way we want our life to be.

So to ask who am I ? Is to really ask. Where do I want to be in life and how can I give myself that life that I need. How can I follow my own true path to internal happiness? So today and every day ask yourself. Who am I ? Am I’m being my true self ? Who am I?

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Goal Getter!

I’ve seen many people dedicate themselves to jobs and people they didn’t want to. Helped build others empires , and never starting their own. They rush to go work for someone else , no one ever works for them. They’re content but unhappy , and miserable living this fatal cycle.

How can they fix it ? As I always tell people , a thought is just a thought until you put an action towards it. A plan towards it , steps towards it. It’ll just be a fair memory , that could’ve been. Don’t let your creations and visions be built by someone else. Cause that could have been you.

Stop WASTING your time scrolling , playing video games , watching moves and just traveling. It’s more to success than that. Do those things when you have found your spot in life , when you’re working towards strengthening your foundation.

CREATE DAILY GOALS ! THEN DO THEM! Stop complaining when you’re not making any changes ! When you stay at that job , in that toxic relationship, dealing with toxic friends and worse.

Start creating daily goals , and you’ll see your mind start creating the answers for those goals and turn them into wealth.

Ask me how. DM @ ShanaTalks1111 via Facebook, instagram and by email at ShanaTalks1111@gmail.com

Get your goal priorities straight…

Face your fears!

Fear keeps you stagnant, moving cautious keeps you safe. Are you tired of being afraid to ask for that raise , make that decision you’ve been wanting , moving further and so much more? You can move wisely , but not be afraid of stepping outside your comfort zone.

Look no further, I’m going to guide you out of the path of fear , and into the road of fearlessness. You have to trust in yourself first, that you will always make the proper decisions for your life. It’s always been up to you. Why would you ever put yourself in a bad situation..unless you’re rushing.

You’re not afraid of the outcomes , you’re afraid of not making the right decisions, you’re afraid you don’t know where to go and how to get there exactly. Take your time , this isn’t a race you know. The only person you should ever be in competition with is.. you. Take your time.

Face your fears and you’ll go further than you’ll ever know. Stay tuned for the podcast next. Tune in via clubhouse 6pm est. tonight 5/31/22. New moon 🌚 , New you 👁 the Link is below. See you there. Comment below for the invite.

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Stay in control !

So many times we’ve either lost or almost lost our cool. Someone , somewhere has said or did something that made us step outside of character. I’m here to tell you , you need to stay in control of your emotions and actions. There are people out here who will purposely target you.

We have to understand these people are unhappy themselves, they’re lost, they lack self confidence, they lack respect for self which means they can’t and will never respect you.

So instead of reacting back with the same negative habits , we can do two things. Try to guide that person in the right path or leave it alone because that is not under your control. You’re only in control of your life, who you allow in it, who you allow to stay, and more.

You’re in control always , don’t let others take that away from you. They’re acting like that because they’ve lost control of themselves. That’s what happens when you allow the world to change you, versus using that to upgrade.

Take control for once! You’ll strive further!